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Feminists Love Mutilated Women?

Yesterday, the English Observer belatedly picked up an article written for the September issue of Standpoint magazine by Jessica Mann, a reviewer who covers crime fiction for the Literary Review. In it, Mann criticizes the genre for revelling in the brutalization of women, and writes that “however many more outpourings of sadistic misogyny are crammed on to the bandwagon, no more of them will be reviewed by me.”

I sympathize with Mann—I can’t stomach much mutilation, and I wouldn’t want my job to be wading in dismembered female bodies. Judging by the response in the blogosphere, though, you’d think this was kinda like Marlon Brando refusing his Oscar or Jonathan Franzen turning down Oprah. But the problem of crimes against women in crime fiction has been often noted: here’s a rundown of some of the more sickening passages you’ll find in today’s popular offerings.

The debate, however, is not just about female mutilation—it’s about terminology. First, it’s about the “F” word. Mann writes:

The trend cannot be attributed to an anti-feminist backlash because the most inventive fiction of this kind is written by women.

In a 2007 piece in the Guardian, Julie Bendel asked why women love to write and read about other women being brutalized:

Given my work as a feminist activist and writer, you might expect me to hate the crime genre. I have spent the whole of my adult life fighting male violence, and much of my work involves researching topics such as rape, child sexual abuse, pornography and murder…. Yet, when it comes to fiction, the serial killer genre is my favourite.

I understand Mann’s and Bindel’s basic premise—that women who care about women shouldn’t, in a logical sense, like to write or read about violence against women—but they both seem to ignore that women can be part of an “anti-feminist backlash,” that men can be feminists, that feminism means different things to different people, that it might have very little to do with what is going on here. When a headline on a Web site geared toward women asks “Feminist or Misogynist?” in a (thoughtful) consideration of Stieg Larsson’s “Girl” trilogy, is that helpful or merely polarizing? Must we choose?

The “F” word is not alone. There’s another word commonly thrown around in this discussion that really seems to turn people’s heads upside down: the “L” word. In 2007, Ian Rankin caused a stir when he quipped, “The people writing the most graphic novels today are women. They are mostly lesbians as well, which I find interesting.”

I suppose it is terribly interesting—if one’s logic follows the proposition “If L then F,” and if you are quite certain what each variable signifies. The popular media was pretty certain: it badgered Val McDermid, a lesbian, for a response (which the Times Online ran with the headline “Revenge of the Bloodthirsty Lesbians”). She called it “arrant rubbish,” and said, “I’ll tell you what pisses me off more than almost anything: when people say, ‘As a woman, how do you feel about writing on violence?’ Have you ever heard a male crime writer being asked, ‘As a man, how do you feel about writing about violence?’ ”

McDermid keeps it real: this debate is about men and women, and mostly about women, a “demographic” that contains multitudes, that is comprised of individuals who may resist any label, even that of “woman.” So it’s a debate about humans, and it turns on the question “Are Women Human?” Not when they are being lumped into unhelpful categories so that they can be lazily scrutinized by the press.

The New Yorker

I’m your biggest fan.

abbyjean:

dyfl:

Lady Gaga’s aesthetic project is to act out celebrity as a form of total impulse-control loss. Her entire raison d’etre is to do literally whatever pops into her head, no matter how ridiculous it is, in front of as many people as possible. She’s acting out the essence of what celebrity has boiled down to: unbridled self-interest with the expectation of a smiling audience who will reward you for it. And is she doing that unironically? HELL TO THE NO. She is 100% aware of how she is embodying current conceptions of what a famous person is or does; she’s just blowing them out to a literally absurd extreme. You show your p***y getting out of a limo? I’m going to get stage blood in my eyeball. You date a dirtbag? I date Kermit The Frog.

The reason Gaga pisses so many people off was best articulated by Morrissey: “You just haven’t earned it yet, baby.” Most people think that it takes a mountain of long-accumulated artistic credibility to be given the permission to act this crazy in public: Salvador Dali walking his anteater, for example, or in the music world, Madonna, who has a legacy of stone-cold classic pop hits. Gaga has four singles, and they’re pretty frothy if entertaining, so most people think she doesn’t have the right to be this baroque. But to those people I say: look around you! How many people in the lens of fame (or should I say The Fame) right now have any right to be there? 5%? 10%? But Gaga’s performance takes it as a given that there are no barriers to entry to celebrity: Act famous, be famous.

Lady Gaga isn’t just another symptom of the problem: she is a piece of art about the problem.

FASCINATING.

(Reblogged from abbyjean)

Women in Fairytales: Sleeping Beauty

the-activista:

usydwomenscollectivelittle-mumbles:

“Woman, if you look for her, has a strong chance of always being found in one position: in bed. In bed and asleep - “laid (out).” She is always to be found on or in a bed: Sleeping Beauty is lifted from her bed by a man because, as we all know, women don’t wake up by themselves: man has to intervene, you understand. She is lifted up by the man who will lay her in her next bed so that she may be confined to bed ever after, just as the fairytales say.”

Cixous, Helene (1981) “Castration or Decapitation”, Annette Kuhn (trans.), Signs: Journal of Women in Culture and Society, 7 (1), p. 43

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This brings me back to the analysis class I took on women in politics as pertaining to television and film media. Ironically enough, Disney’s Princesses are the first images of women with power that young girls will consume- they are aristocrats who hold in their very being the ability to determine a kingdom’s future. The downside seems to be, though, that they are less empowered by that than disempowered by the soul mate ideal; they are less worried about qualifications and more about male validation when deciding whom to choose as theirs and, therefore, their kingdom’s.

(Disney is the best for feminist query.)

(Reblogged from the-activista)

‘Feminist’ porn film funded by taxpayers opens in Sweden

STOCKHOLM — A porn movie shot by a feminist documentary maker and funded by taxpayers was set for its premiere in the Swedish capital of Stockholm on Thursday night.

Dirty Diaries, a collection of 12 short pornographic films, shot by director Mia Engberg received 500,000 Sweden kronor (69,000 dollars, 48,000 euros) in public funds from the Swedish Film Institute.

“Porn has always been made by men for men,” Engberg told AFP, explaining her reasoning for shooting the Dirty Diaries.

“Above all, it’s about showing sexuality through a female’s perspective. It’s not made to please a male audience and it’s not made to make money,” she added.

Engberg said what makes Dirty Diaries feminist is that it displays women’s sexuality in a natural way and shuns what she perceives as mainstream porn’s sexist tendency to treat women as objects.

“I think this is the future. The most popular genre now is homemade porn made by ordinary people,” she said.

Clips from the films appear on Engberg’s website, www.dirtydiaries.se, carrying titles such as “Flasher Girl On Tour” and “On Your Back Woman.”

Beatrice Fredriksson, a youth member of Prime Minister Fredrik Reinfeldt’s conservative Moderate Party and the author of the Anti-Feminist Initiative blog, slammed the decision to use taxpayers money to fund the films.

“I do not think that the government should be funding this kind of thing, just because its ‘feminist’ it gets money,” she said.

But Engberg brushed off criticisms that funding X-rated sex movies with taxpayers money was a waste of funds.

“We are producing 70 minutes of high quality film…it’s just 500,000 kronor. They couldn’t spend the money any better,” she told AFP.

When asked by AFP if she opposed the Swedish film body backing mainstream pornography, Engberg said: “They should not be given any money at all, especially when they are making money out of women’s bodies.”

In an interview on the Swedish Film Institute website, the group’s head Cissi Elwin Frenkel defended providing the money for the film.

“Everyone in the films is over the age of 18, no one is doing anything against their will, everyone shares equally in the money from the films,” Frenkel said.

“All of this makes Mia Engberg’s project different from regular porn in many ways. This is an ambitious project that in both form and content lives up to the demands we set for the projects we support,” she added.

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Someone just called one of my articles “fem-nazi drivel”.

Well, any reaction is a good reaction, right?

But there are costs to this sisterly vigilance. Aware that others will be judging them, it makes women wonder if they’re withholding their sexuality “enough.” Or it makes them proud that they do. Either way, it says that repressing yourself is an important part of sexuality and relationships. And that’s a destructive idea.

Women are caught in a historical collision between the sexual values of the past and future. Religion, the media and our families are sending out contradictory messages about sexuality that are driving women crazy.

Consider: Today’s woman is supposed to be sexy, but not too sexy. She’s supposed to be responsive enough to validate her partner, but not too aggressive or hard to please. Sexual, but not lusty. Not frigid, but not quite red hot. Her sexuality should express love, not lust.

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What is it about the issue of climate change that means women do not get involved? Undoubtedly, in the realm of decision-making, it is a failure of politics to catch up with 21st-century equality. In terms of campaigning, environmental journalism and grassroots activism, I suspect the reasons may be more complex, and stem from women themselves feeling shut out from a lot of very male-dominated debates.

Only rapists can prevent rape:

lickystickypickyme:

A lot has been said about how to prevent rape. Women should learn self-defense. Women should lock themselves in their houses after dark. Women shouldn’t have long hair and women shouldn’t wear short skirts. Women shouldn’t leave drinks unattended. Fuck, they shouldn’t dare to get drunk at all. Instead of that bullshit, how about:

If a woman is drunk, don’t rape her.
If a woman is walking alone at night, don’t rape her.
If a women is drugged and unconscious, don’t rape her.
If a woman is wearing a short skirt, don’t rape her.
If a woman is jogging in a park at 5 am, don’t rape her.
If a woman looks like your ex-girlfriend you’re still hung up on, don’t rape her.
If a woman is asleep in her bed, don’t rape her.
If a woman is asleep in your bed, don’t rape her.
If a woman is doing her laundry, don’t rape her.
If a woman is in a coma, don’t rape her.
If a woman changes her mind in the middle of or about a particular activity, don’t rape her.
If a woman has repeatedly refused a certain activity, don’t rape her.
If a woman is not yet a woman, but a child, don’t rape her.
If your girlfriend or wife is not in the mood, don’t rape her.
If your step-daughter is watching TV, don’t rape her.
If you break into a house and find a woman there, don’t rape her.
If your friend thinks it’s okay to rape someone, tell him it’s not, and that he’s not your friend.
If your “friend” tells you he raped someone, report him to the police.
If your frat-brother or another guy at the party tells you there’s an unconscious woman upstairs and it’s your turn, don’t rape her, call the police and tell the guy he’s a rapist.
Tell your sons, god-sons, nephews, grandsons, sons of friends it’s not okay to rape someone.
Don’t tell your women friends how to be safe and avoid rape.
Don’t imply that she could have avoided it if she’d only done/not done x.
Don’t imply that it’s in any way her fault.
Don’t let silence imply agreement when someone tells you he “got some” with the drunk girl.

Note:
This goes for any gendered rape, male on female or female on male or female on female or FTM on MTF or non gendered to dual gendered and so on and so forth….

-author unknown

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(Reblogged from lickystickypickywe)

Women in Poverty- 8 Stats

All of these stats are taken from the New York Times Special Issue on Saving the World’s Women, unless otherwise noted

1-Women own 1% of the world’s land.

2-The poorest families in the world spend approximately 10 times as much (20 percent of their incomes on average) on a combination of alcohol, prostitution, candy, sugary drinks and lavish feasts as they do on educating their children (2 percent).

3-The delivery of vaccinations and other kinds of health care has reduced the number of children who die every year before they reach the age of 5 to less than 10 million today from 20 million in 1960.

4-In India, a “bride burning” takes place approximately once every two hours, to punish a woman for an inadequate dowry or to eliminate her so a man can remarry

5-About 107 million females are missing from the globe today

6-At any one time there are 12.3 million people engaged in forced labor of all kinds, including sexual servitude

7-In Niger, a woman has a 1 in 7 chance of dying from childbirth. In India, she has a a 1 in 70 chance. In the US, that chance is reduced to 1 in 4 800.

8-85% of the people who die in natural disasters are women (Oxfam Canada).